Is it annoying for a husband to ask his wife to make a list of all the men she slept with in her past?

I was just wondering if it is a problem for a husband to want to know all of the men that his wife has slept with in her past and what positions were performed? I think it makes life more simple. Its this guy that plays poker with us on Friday nights and I found out my wife slept with him in 2002. She was pissed that I kept pestering her and then she finally told me the truth. I always noticed the way they acted around each other so I asked. I feel that if you know the history of the guys then you know who to watch. For instance, what if I go take a leak during the poker match and while I am in the bathroom he fondles her and kisses her and then I return and they act normal. That would suck!!!